There’s an episode of FRIENDS where the women teach Chandler about a woman’s seven spots or erogenous zones. Monica outlines a pattern of stimulation that will make a woman’s toes curl, and Rachel even excitedly exclaims about toes! While we never learn what exactly those places are, we know there are at least seven – if not more – erogenous zones on your body that you and your man should know about.

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man kissing woman on the neck from behind, one of her erogenous zones

Pay particular attention to these erogenous zones during foreplay if you have trouble getting turned on, which can make your G-spot and clitoris more receptive to aggressive stimulation. You may find yourself more aroused, more easily pleased and more likely to orgasm after incorporating more erogenous zones than just your breasts, clit or vagina.
Erogenous Zones on the Female Body

You can take the time to get to know these sexy spots on your own body during masturbation. Then, you’ll be able to suggest to your man where he can touch you to get you extra turned on. Some erogenous zones may not respond to your own touch, like ticklish spots on your body, and you may not be able to provide the right type of stimulation, such as kissing, to some body parts.

However, you can give it a try, anyway. You may even be surprised at some of the unexpected places that can be highly sensual.
1. Ears

Ears play a significant role in foreplay. He can lick or nibble on them. Some women experience a shiver down their spine when they feel the heat of their partner’s breath on their ears, which happens during kissing or whispering. If your man purses his lips, his breath will feel cooler.

Don’t forget about fingers! Lightly tugging on earlobes or tracing the cartilage can feel more sensual than you can even imagine, and some women enjoy a light trace of the finger along the skin behind their ears.

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2. Neck

It’s no surprise that a woman’s neck is an erogenous zone because of all its nerve endings. After all, “necking” is a familiar name for making out! From kissing to leaving hickeys to massage, there’s plenty of ways to arouse your neck.

The part between the jaw and shoulders to the side is known as the nape, and it’s especially sensitive! It can feel delicious to run an ice cube down the skin of the neck. He can use his fingers or even a feather #toy to lightly tickle your neck.

Just be sure to let him know if it’s okay to leave a love mark or not!
3. Lips

Most people realize that lips play a role in arousal and sex. In fact, our lips even become flushed and swell slightly as we become aroused. We use our lips and mouths to show affection to everyone, with open-mouthed kisses being the most intimate type. But lips can do so much more than that!

They respond to light touches such as being traced by a fingertip. You might like when your man bites your lips. Alternating sweet and passionate kisses help to keep things interesting, and if either you or your man needs a refresher in kissing technique, check out this post.
4. Hands

Here’s another unexpected erogenous zone. We usually think of hands in regards to what they can touch, but they can be touched, too. If you’ve ever gotten a hand massage, you can appreciate how good it feels to stimulate one of the most overworked parts of your body. It’s amazing even when it’s not sexual.

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But if your man adds some massage oil and kneads the palms of your hands, rubs the backs of your hands and slides his fingers between yours, you might melt well before your clothes come off!
6. Lower Back

The lower back isn’t just a good place for a tattoo; it’s also one of those famous erogenous zones! If you experience lower back pain after a long day at work or during your period, you might especially enjoy the attention to this area.

A woman’s lower back is ripe for a regular massage, and your man’s hands can travel south to rub your butt, too. He can focus on your spine if it relieves any discomfort. You might have a hard time reaching your own lower back, but your man can kiss it or even run an ice cube down the small of your back.
7. Inner Thighs

If you automatically head to your clitoris or vagina when you masturbate, you may be making a mistake! The same goes for your man. Both men and women can experience pleasure from this area. The inner thighs are sensitive to both lighter touches and more intense ones, so your man can try tracing with his fingertips, kissing or licking for a lighter touch.

But if you like rougher sex, he can try even biting the fleshy part of your inner thighs. Some people also like slapping or spanking of the area.

Although you can’t reach your own thighs with your mouth, try caressing them the next time you masturbate.
8. Clitoris

We’ve already listed seven erogenous zones, and we’re just now getting to the clitoris. This is a powerful one. Without stimulation of the clit, most women are unable to orgasm. This is completely normal, but it’s also normal for clitoral stimulation to feel a bit uncomfortable if you’re not properly turned on first.

After turning yourself on, you can try a number of ways to stimulate your clitoris. This includes using your fingers, a vibrator or even rubbing against something such as a pillow or your partner’s thigh. These masturbation techniques will give you 14 different ways to stimulate your clit and the rest of your vagina.

If you’re like most women, you probably enjoy when your partner performs oral sex. If your man needs some assistance, suggest that he views your vulva like the face of the clock. As he moves around the clock, he should pay attention to the areas that you like the best.

If you like lots of clitoral stimulation during sex, then check out this in-depth guide to clitoral stimulation for everything you need to know.
9. Vagina

Once you’re sufficiently aroused, perhaps with an orgasm or two under your belt, vaginal penetration becomes more comfortable. It’s always a good idea to have a bit of lube on hand. More on that here.

The most sensitive part of your vagina is within the first few inches, which is why you don’t necessarily need a super-endowed partner for sex to feel good. Your G-spot is located toward the front wall of your vagina within the first two to three inches. Use your fingers to search for a bumpy area in a valley.

Other sensitive spots in your vagina include the anterior fornix erogenous zone (also called the A Spot), which is located along the front wall several inches further beyond your G-spot. There are some tools and toys you can use to reach this or any erogenous zone in your vagina, including fingers, your partner’s penis, a dildo or vibrator.

Depending on your body, you might prefer the friction of fast-and-hard thrusting, vibrations or simply the feeling of being full during penetration. However, vaginal stimulation doesn’t necessarily need to be aggressive to feel good.
10. Butt and Anus

Because of the proximity between your vagina and anus, there’s no surprise that this is yet another erogenous zone. You can experiment with anal sex or anal fingering if you’re not ready to dive in. A variety of #sex toys exist specifically for pleasuring the back door: butt plugs and anal beads among them.

Not everyone is comfortable with anal sex, but your butt can still be receptive to sensual touches. Many people love when their partner grabs their ass, and some women enjoy spanking, too. Your partner should aim for the meatiest part of your butt cheeks when spanking or using impact play toys to be safe.
11. Breasts

While a man often goes straight for his woman’s breasts, not every woman finds her breasts to be a particularly sensitive area. You’re likely going to find your nipples the most sensitive, and you can pinch them or even try nipple clamps if you like more extreme sensations. A sensuous breast massage can also be quite relaxing.

Your man can lick or bite your nipples, which will be especially sensitive to cold. Ice is a popular “toy” for nipple play. Looking for inspiration? Try this advice on nipple stimulation.
12. And More

While we’ve listed off nearly a dozen places on your body that like to be touched, licked, kissed or even pinched, this isn’t even a comprehensive list of a woman’s erogenous zones! Any place on your body can respond to touch, and some people find certain places to be particularly sensitive.

Some women enjoy touches along the top of their backs while others find their feet unusually erotic. You might enjoy a foot massage or when your man sucks on your toes. Experimentation and communication are key to unlocking all of your erogenous zones – and his erogenous zones, too.
The Brain As An Erogenous Zone

Obviously, we don’t mean that you should massage the grey matter of your brain! But a woman’s brain might be the most potent erogenous zone that she has. Some women are even able to orgasm from thought alone [1]. But even if you can’t, you should respect your brain’s role in your sexuality. When you can get your mind in the mood for sex or masturbation, your body will often follow.

This is something that many men fail to understand, which can lead to unhappiness in your relationship. A woman whose mind is at ease is more likely to want sex, which means your man should take out the trash or help the kids with homework when he can so you can relax.

There’s also a saying about how men use sex just for the physical release while women need to feel love to have sex. If you feel used or objectified, you’re less likely to be turned on. Make sure your man understands this and makes you feel loved.

Mental foreplay is an enjoyable exercise that can have you thinking about and wanting sex like never before. Let your man know your plan to ravage him when you get home from work that day. Send a sexy text or even a photo when he’s at the office. Even a little flirting with your man can do the trick if you’ve gotten into a routine.

If you ignore the contribution of your mind to arousal and pleasure, you might have a hard time stimulating any of the erogenous zones on this list. But you’ll be glad when you incorporate teasing to increase sexual chemistry and provide sensation to a wider variety of body parts to facilitate more intense pleasure and better orgasms!

As the name suggests, a micropenis is a small penis, and while you might be concerned about the impact on your #sex life, it can be an even bigger deal for your partner. Many men worry if a micropenis will be a deal-breaker, and women fret over how sex with them will feel, but we’re here to assuage your fears and answer all your micropenis questions.

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1. What Is a Micropenis?

A micropenis is a smaller than average penis, and we’re not just talking about on the smaller size of average. Many sources list a micropenis as 3 inches in length when stretched or shorter or with a circumference greater than the length (a penis with a 1-inch diameter will have a circumference of 3.14″). Micropenises may even be shorter than one inch in length.

One standard definition is a penis that is 2.5 standard deviations less than the average when age is taken into consideration [1] [2], so what counts as a micropenis varies. For example, a study published in BJU International reported that the average penis was 5.21 inches with a standard deviation of .62 inches [3]. This means 2.5 standard deviations (1.55 inches) below the average of 3.66 inches – longer than the 3-inch suggestion.

Some doctors may incorrectly diagnose a micropenis, however [1].
2. What Causes a Micropenis?

A variety of factors contribute to a micropenis including congenital conditions, but a man without any other conditions may have a micropenis. Studies suggest it’s due to a lack of correct hormones, specifically testosterone, during his mother’s pregnancy. The same hormone imbalance may cause the scrotum to be smaller than normal, too [1].

Chemicals that interrupt hormone development may also contribute to developing a micropenis [4].

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3. How Common Are Micropenises?

If you’ve never encountered a micropenis in the wild, you’re not alone. Over a period of three years, the occurrence of micropenis in newborn children was less than 2 in every 10,000 [5] – far less than 1% of the male population.

However, this estimate isn’t correct for every area. For example, one area in Brazil where certain pesticides were used saw an increase in genital malformation and micropenis [4]. In a study of 2,710 infants, researchers revealed that high levels of endocrine-disrupting chemicals from fertilizers during and prior to the mother’s pregnancy led to these malformations.
4. Is Masturbation Different for Men with Micropenises?

It can be! As you can imagine, wrapping an entire fist around a penis that’s only a few inches long can be difficult, so men who have a micropenis might choose to use just a few fingers to stroke their penises. If your partner is one of these men, it may be helpful for you to ask him to show you how he likes to be touched so you can adapt your own skills.

Some men with a micropenis opt not to masturbate in the traditional way at all. Instead, they rub against a mattress or pillow, like you may have done when you were younger – or may still do! This translates well to partner play if he rubs his penis against your body, especially your breasts or vulva and clitoris.
5. Can a Man Change the Size of His Micropenis?

The outlook doesn’t look good for adult men; however, young boys and children are the best candidates for hormone therapy that can increase their penis size. Options include injections and topical ointments [5].

How effective can these treatments be? Very! One researcher suggests successful treatment adds at least 3.5cm in length [6], which could potentially double (or more) the size of a micropenis. One possible side effect of these treatments is an increase in bone growth [7]; although, this may not be a negative thing.

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One possible solution to having a micropenis for an adult male is surgery of his penis [8], also known as phalloplasty. This procedure is similar to the surgery that transmen undergo when transitioning [9].
6. Will a Woman Date a Man With a Micropenis?

Some women won’t, but many are okay with it. Responses from women on sites such as Reddit and BuzzFeed whose partners had micropenises often indicated the many of those partners were excellent with their hands and mouths to make up for their penile deficiency. When relationships ended, it had more to do with romantic incompatibilities, sexual selfishness or the man’s insecurity.

Regardless, having a micropenis can cause a man to have a lot of sexual anxiety (find out more about sexual anxiety). He’ll worry that partners won’t accept him and will leave him or that those who do stay will stay out of pity. Another concern shared by some men with a micropenis is that he won’t be able to please his partner.

You probably have some of your own anxiety about sex, so keep that in mind when communicating and having sex with your partner. Sometimes performance anxiety can contribute to erectile dysfunction, too.
7. What Do Men Think About Having a Micropenis?

Most micropenis questions focus on sex, but the anxiety that a man faces about having a micropenis, unfortunately, doesn’t stop inside the bedroom. Many guys feel nervous when using locker rooms and showers or public bathrooms, where the size of their penis is on display for all to see.

One possible solution is to urinate in a stall, and peeing while sitting on the toilet may actually be easier depending on the size of his penis.
8. How Does Weight Affect a Micropenis?

Sometimes men or boys are concerned about their penises being small, but being overweight or obese can make a penis look comparatively smaller because there is so much fatty tissue surrounding it. This condition is actually known as buried penis [10]. Surgery may be an option for a person with a buried penis. When the man loses weight, lifts his stomach or is in positions such as Cowgirl (tips here), the appearance of his penis is larger, however.
9. Can You Be Sexually Satisfied with a Micropenis?

The good news for men with a micropenis is that his sexual function usually isn’t impaired.

For partners of men with a micropenis, there is also hope. The same things that make any man a good lover apply to a man with a micropenis. If he helps relax you, uses his hands and mouth and doesn’t focus on penetration, you can be incredibly satisfied.

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10. How to React to a Micropenis?

You might be shocked to learn that your man has a micropenis, especially if he hasn’t taken the time to warn you. He may be trying to avoid confrontation because he’s insecure about it.

You’ll want to be gracious and gentle. Of course, no laughing or pointing. Avoid asking if it’s hard or “in yet?”. Encourage him to stimulate you in other ways.

An enthusiastic blowjob or stroking him might help to ease his mind, and it’ll be easier if you’re really into this guy. If you plan to pursue a relationship, you don’t want to indicate that he’s blowing your mind when he isn’t. Honesty is essential, but it should be kind.

Discover how to talk about tricky sex subjects such as a micropenis in our guide to sexual communication.

Finally, you don’t want to give compliments that don’t seem sincere. He’s not “Sooo huge,” but maybe he’s really good with his hands or tongue. So give those compliments, instead. Find out how compliments can bring you closer together.
11. Are Toys a Good Solution to a Micropenis?

Absolutely! Many men with a micropenis get creative about pleasing their partners. Even if your man hasn’t suggested the idea of using a sex #toy, you can bring it up by suggesting is would be really hot if he used one on you.

What types of #sex toys do we recommend?

A dildo to help you feel filled.
A vibrator for intense stimulation (learn how to use one).
A penis sleeve that he wears during penetration so he’ll feel larger.
The We-Vibe or the Lelo Tiani, which is inserted during penetration.

Check out all our sex toy recommendations.

Not that a cock ring can make a man feel a bit larger because it restricts blood from leaving his penis. However, some cock rings may be too large. A custom stainless steel or glass cock ring may do the trick, and some rings are adjustable via snaps. More on that.
12. Can You Use Condoms?

You can and still should use condoms with a partner, even if he has a micropenis. It’s still possible to transmit STIs or become pregnant. However, average condoms might not fit. A condom that’s too loose may come off and not offer the protection you’re seeking.

Snug or secure fit condoms are designed to fit smaller-than-average penises, and all the major condom companies offer these styles. You might not be familiar with the brand Glyde, but they also offer a condom for micropenises: Slimfit Premium Small Size.

Not all smaller condoms are labeled as such, however. Don’t forget to consider the following condoms:

LifeStyles 3Sum
DUREX Avanti BARE Latex Condoms
Kimono Microthin Ultra
Okamoto Beyond Seven (nonlatex if either of you suffers from a latex allergy)

Another option is the female condom, which you insert into your vagina before sex rather than sliding over his shaft. The female condom is the perfect solution. It’s open at both ends, and you squeeze the inner ring like you would the NuvaRing to insert it. The remainder hangs out of your vagina while you have sex.

Some couples need time to get used to the female condom, but it’s worth it for your health and peace of mind!

Learn more about using male and female condoms in this post.
13. What Positions Work Best?

Hopefully you don’t feel too turned off by the answers to any of these micropenis questions. If you’re ready to have sex with a guy who is on the smaller size, certain positions work better than others.

As we’ve mentioned, any position where your man is on his back will minimize fatty tissue or a generous tummy, and it also gives you control over sex! Try Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl (learn more), or straddling him in a chair. Ideas here.

Positions that make his penis feel larger may also be more pleasurable, including Doggy Style and Spooning (more in this post), which allows you to close your legs.

However, any position that requires greater penile length to achieve pleasurable penetration will be frustrating or even impossible. Keep this in mind if you have a bodacious backside and are considering rear entry positions.

Pillows can be a sexual aid in lifting your hips closer to his. Experiment with propping one under your butt or hips to find the right angle. For even more support, you can invest in Liberator sex furniture and pillows, which are designed specifically to make sex easier (and more fun!).
14. Are There Any Benefits to a Micropenis?

Yes! Many women prefer giving head to a man with a micropenis. They can take his full length, and their jaws don’t become fatigued as quickly as with partners who have larger penises.

You might also realize that your partner’s smaller penis is ideal for anal sex.

Related: How to Have Pain-Free Anal Sex

For people who like rougher sex, a micropenis doesn’t carry the same risk of cervical pain.

While you might be surprised to learn that your partner has a micropenis, it might not be as much of a barrier to a pleasurable sex life as you anticipated. The same things that enhance sex with an average-sized partner – communication, foreplay and selflessness – apply here, and men with a micropenis often go the extra mile to make up for where they fall short.

#Sex toys. If you’ve tried them, you might have discovered that they allow you to orgasm, even if you’ve never been able to before. Perhaps you’ve been able to have better #sex with your man or negate difficulties due to erectile dysfunction – more on that here – or other issues that have been impeding your sex life.

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If you’re single, a sex #toy can give you orgasms that keep you happy and healthy. Don’t believe us? Just read this post! Couples can learn more about one another, become more connected and spice up their sex lives with the help of sex toys. This article can teach you the basics of sex toys. But if you’re ready to dive right in and buy your first — or tenth! – sex toy, we’ve curated a list of the best sex toys around!
Classic Vibrators

These vibrators are intended for insertion. Unless there’s a flared base, you’ll want to only use them vaginally and not anally. Straighter shafts don’t necessarily stimulate the G-spot, but they can feel great anyway.

Stronic Eins: Okay, so it’s not exactly a vibrator, but this unique toy has won over sexy women time and again. With the Stronic line, Fun Factory introduced a thrusting sensation thanks to an internal piston. It’s not a replacement for sex, but it’s definitely interesting!The Stronic Eins has slight curve to the shaft to potentially stimulate your G-spot and a clitoral nub.
Big Boss: The second Fun Factory toy on this list has girth like you wouldn’t believe, rumbly vibrations and silicone that’s textured like velvet. You’ll definitely want to load up on the lube for comfort, but this is the vibrator you want if you’re a size queen!

Check out tips for using a vibrator.
The Best Sex Toys for G-spot Stimulation

The best sex toy to stimulate your G-spot will have a curved or angled head, often bulbous, to reach your G-spot with ease. A dildo with the right shape can send you into orgasmic bliss, while some people prefer vibrations on their G-spot. There’s no reason for you not to have at least one of each in your collection, of course!

Pure Wand: This stainless steel dildo from nJoy might seem intimidating, but it’s helped people who swear they don’t even have a G-spot find theirs and achieve orgasm! The metal means it’s hefty and responds well to temperature changes, while the curve and different-sized ends guide the wand right to your G-spot.
Mona 2: The first Lelo sex toy in this list is the company’s G-spot vibrator. The second edition offers more powerful vibrators and a head bend and tapered specifically for G-spot stimulation. Lelo makes some of the best sex toys that are rechargeable, and Mona is no exception!
Comet Key II Wand: Get a little more size with the Comet II by Cal Exotics. The original was just a curved glass shaft coated in silicone, not entirely different in shape from the Pure Wand. But the second introduces vibration to that bulb that’s designed specifically for G-spot stimulation!
Ella: For the G-spot that prefers to be stroked rather than vibrated, there’s the Ella., another body-safe silicone sex toy. Lelo’s dildo has the same shape as Gigi, which many people tout as the best sex toy for G-spot stimulation, but a much smaller price tag. You can even experiment with inserting the handle.

Wand Vibrators

Wand vibrators are typically those that you plug in. They derive from the very first vibrators, which were originally intended to help treat women for “hysteria.” In fact, your mom or grandma might own one! Two companies, Wahl and Hitachi, were among the first to sell these vibrators, even though they were marketed to help with back and other muscle pain with their intense vibrations.

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Today, the Hitachi Magic Wand is sold as the Magic Wand Original, and you can get attachments for G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Because of its power, the Hitachi is known as the best sex toy ever. There is also a Magic Wand Rechargeable that offers the same power of the corded version without tethering you to an outlet!
Clitoral Vibrators

Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, which is why sex often misses the mark. However, you can add a clitoral vibrator to your sexploits or even solo sessions for easier orgasms than ever before!

Siri 2: Here’s another Lelo toy for you – Siri. The second version is rechargeable and also has an unique sound recognition mode. Even if you don’t find the latter function useful, it’s more rechargeable than the first Siri.
Ora 2: If you’re looking to emulate oral sex, why not give Ora 2 a try? Lelo has created a toy with a rotating beads beneath a thin layer of flexible silicone to stimulate your clitoris like a lover might. Add a dollop of lube – read more about that here – and you’re good to go. Ora 2 also vibrates so you can fall back on that.
Tango: Lelo isn’t the only company that makers amazing sex toys! We-Vibe, which you might know for their couples vibe, also makes some great solo toys. The Tango is one of them. This is the modern version of the lipstick vibrator – small and discreet enough to carry in your purse – that’s also rechargeable, waterproof and stronger than most small vibes.
Mina Limon: Many women like to squeeze their thighs together during orgasm, and Minna has created a smaller vibrator that fits perfectly between your legs and responds to that pressure. Of course, you can use your hands with the Limon, too. The harder you squeeze, the stronger the vibrations. You can also create pulsation and even record a custom mode with the Limon! Bonus: if you like Limon, try the insertable vibrator Ola.

Dildos

The dildo is ubiquitous as being a basic sex toy, and it might also be the best sex toy. There are a number of things you can do after insertion: thrusting, turning or even external vibration from a powerful wand are a few. Learn more about dildos. Dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes and materials, so there are plenty to choose from. Here are a few to get your started.

Anything Vixen: Vixen was among the first dildo makers to create dual-density silicone under the VixSkin line. The inside is firm, while the outer layer is softer. The result is a more realistic toy for your enjoyment. The Maverick and Mustang are both fan favorites, or you can opt for the modern Raquel or the super-realistic Johnny. Vixen also makes regular silicone dildos like the Leo, and both can be sterilized by boiling or with a 10% bleach solution.
D.1: This stone dildo by Norwegian company Laid will have you feeling like you’re in the lap of luxury. It’s one of the heftier sex toys on this list, so it’s not ideal if you have arthritis. But the D.1 is gorgeous, gently curved and responds well to temperature.

Couples’ Vibrators

Couple’s vibrators exist to provide sensations to both partners during sex. Some are worn internally or around your partner’s penis, and others can rest between your bodies. Here are just some of our favorites:

We-Vibe: This U-shaped vibrator simultaneously stimulates your vagina and clitoris as it wraps around your pubic bone. It’s intended to be worn during sex, creating a snug sensation when your partner enters you. The newest model even comes with a remote control to make it easier to use!
Eva: Two flexible arms help you situate this tiny vibrator against your clitoris and keep it in place during sex. Your partner can feel the vibrations while he penetrates you, and you can also use it during masturbating with your favorite dildo.
Ooh Cock Ring: There are a number of vibrating cock rings that are designed to help your man last longer and provide clitoral stimulation with a vibrating component. Ooh by Je Joue pairs a strong-yet-small rechargeable motor with different attachments, and one is the cock ring. Stretchy silicone means your man can be comfortable while the ring is wrapped around the base of his cock. You can try wrapping it around his balls, too. This post has tips for using cock rings.

Anal Toys

Anal toys can be used by men or women. Your man’s prostate will love one if he’s okay with anal exploration, and wearing one during masturbation or sex can help you feel amazingly filled!

Bootie: A thin neck and narrow base means this butt plug stays in place comfortably between your cheeks. It’s made from body-safe silicone, which can even be sterilized. Wear it during sex, masturbation or simply while you’re doing chores. Might this be the best sex toy for anal play? You tell us!
Pure Plugs: For more experienced users, there are the Pure Plugs. nJoy makes their stainless steel plugs in various sizes, so you can find the perfect one for you. The loop works as a handle and makes the plugs safe for insertion, but they’re definitely heavier than most butt toys.

Make sure to read this post for info about butt plug techniques and anal toy safety.

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Kegel Exercisers

Kegel exercises are designed to help strengthen PC muscles. You don’t need anything to do them, but these are the best sex toys if you want to have more fun and get better feedback.

Luna Beads: Lelo’s weight kegel system provides options for people who want to strengthen your kegel muscles. It’s useful to do these exercises after giving birth. They can also help you feel tighter for your man, experience better orgasms and even squirt. Learn more about that here. The Luna beads come with an easy removal cord, so they won’t be as difficult to retrieve as ben wa balls.
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You can safely make some sex toys or borrow a few household items to achieve orgasm. You can get creative when making your own dildo or bondage gear, and even apply your artistic skills to the process. This is especially true if you already have knowledge of an art or craft – glass or leather work, for example – that can be applied to sex toys.

But where do you start?
8 Homemade Sex Toys

Below, you’ll find some examples of homemade sex toys that you can try yourself. They vary in form, function and difficulty, and not all of them might be up your alley. Still, you might be surprised as what you can make or find at home to help get yourself off!
1. Ice Dildo

The ice dildo is an easy DIY project to mark off on your homemade sex toys list. You can do it in one of two ways:

Fill a condom with water, tie it shut and pop it into the freezer until it’s solid.
Substitute water for juice in a popsicle mold.

The popsicle method provides you with a handle, so you’re not freezing your hand or melting water all over it. You can use the dildo without removing the condom, or you can carefully take it off from the frozen dildo once it’s ready.

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2. Clone A Willy

Here’s a DIY sex toy that’s a little longer lasting. Clone A Willy is a company that actually provides the materials to make a mold of someone’s penis and turn it into your own vibrating dildo, candle or even chocolate snack! It’s silly and also a fun way to spend time with your man. The kit comes with everything you need to make the clone, including instructions. The process is a quick one, and there’s not a lot of room to dawdle or make mistakes.

People especially find themselves over-stirring the mold mix, which allows it to harden prematurely. The mold should be soft while your partner is hard, which means he’s got to be prepared, too! However, if you get this right, it can definitely be fun and leave you with a very functional homemade sex toy.
3. Tampons as Butt Plugs

If you’ve read our information about butt plugs, then you know safety is a must when it comes to the back door. Anything without a proper handle could become lost, which means it’s even harder to find or make the right homemade sex toy for anal exploration. It’s totally natural if you want to explore butt play, but what if you’re not sure you’ll like it? Should you run out and buy a toy? Not so fast.

You probably have some tampons if you’re of menstruating age, or you can easily borrow one from a friend. Tampons with applicators are easy to insert with a little bit of lube (read more about lube) and you’ve got a DIY butt plug. You can keep it in while you masturbate with a dildo for an extra filling sensation. Because tampons are softer and smaller than most sex toys, this might be a good way to introduce yourself to anal insertion. If you like it, graduate to something bigger over time. If not, no big deal!

When you’re done, the string makes for easy removal.

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4. Washing Machine

The clothes are on the spin cycle and you’d like a satisfying orgasm, but your vibrator’s batteries are dead. What’a a girl to do? Simply hop on or lean against your washing machine so you can feel the vibrations as it moves. Your clothes are still getting clean even if you’re being dirty, and it’ll be more intense than any vibrator!
5. Back Massager

Let’s be honest, many back massagers are nothing more than vibrators that can easily be used externally. In fact, that’s how the Hitachi and Wahl became two of the most popular wand vibrators around. More on that here. So if you’ve got a massager tucked away somewhere from an old pulled muscle, why not break it out and try it on a more sensitive part of your body? You can thank us later!
6. Vibrating Cell Phones and Devices

Okay, so you don’t have a massager on hand and your washing machine is broken. Don’t worry! Most of us carry around vibrating devices on a daily basis. Yes, we’re talking about your cell phone. The vibrations are much weaker than most actual vibrators, but it can do in a pinch. The big concern is not butt dialing someone, but keeping the vibrations going and keeping a barrier between you and the toy to both protect it from bacteria and prevent moisture damage. Using your phone as a clitoral vibrator through your panties solves most of these problems.

Vibrate Plus and Pleasure Droid are two apps for Android devices; but Apple bans similar apps from the iTunes store. Of course, using your phone for this DIY sex toy will drain the battery quickly.

Cosmetics have also hopped on the vibrating bandwagon, so your vibrating mascara or toothbrush can also be used as long as it has enough battery life.
7. Clay Dildo or Plug

Here’s a little homemade sex toy: a dildo or butt plug made out of clay. Not only does a clay dildo provide sexual satisfaction, but you get the satisfaction of doing it yourself and creating a one-of-a-kind homemade sex toy. Choose your favorite colors and the size and shape that you like best. You can even add glow-in-the-dark clay.

Baking a sex toy in a kiln, if you know someone who has space in theirs, is the safest and most effective method. For a butt plug, a pottery wheel comes in handy. But you’ll want to fire it twice, glazing before the second fire, to make it nonporous and safe to use. Otherwise, colors and chemicals could leach out of your homemade sex toy and into your body. Yuck! Avoid softer clay or those that are crumbly because they could break off or even leave a residue, leading to a nasty infection.
8. Commandeer Household Items for BDSM

These aren’t exactly homemade sex toys, but you can use a number of items that you probably have lying around your home to make your sex life better. For example:

A spatula or wooden spoon makes a great spanking implement.
A soft belt can become a single-tail whip (just make sure not to use the end with the buckle!).
Paper clips and clamps can be placed on your nipples if you like that type of nipple play. More on that.
A clean feather duster can tease and tickle your partner into a frenzy.
A soft scarf, fuzzy wrap or similar item feels great when dragged across the skin.
Old sports paddles can become spanking paddles without any work!

And if you’re interested, you can make a number of wood paddles yourself from wood. Cut, sand and paint wood to become a paddle in any shape you want. A length of rope and a few knots makes a flogger. Instructions here. You can even make a flogger out of shoe laces! In fact, rope is relatively cheap and can be used to make all sorts of bondage. If you’ve got the tools for cutting, punching and sewing leather, you’ll open up a whole new world of homemade sex toys, too!
The Risks of Homemade Sex Toys

There are a number of considerations when it comes to homemade sex toys. When you go the DIY route, you run the risk of:

Getting an infection such as a bacterial infection or yeast infection.
Injuring yourself because of items that aren’t intended to be inserted.
Getting an item without a proper flared base or handle lost in your rectum and having to go to the emergency room.

You should use caution and common sense when it comes to making or finding homemade sex toys. Take your time whenever you make a homemade sex toy, and you could have something safe and beautiful. Rush it or make a hasty decision because you’re dying to get off, and you could wind up in pain in the hospital.